2016: A Great Year For Change

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Well winter is here and a new year has begun. A great time to evoke change! The change I want to see is in accessibility. 

Oh the joys of winter. Walking with a wheelchair over icy banks and navigating around inconsiderate vehicle owners; who block sidewalks (not even bothering to use their entire driveway), forcing us out onto the roads. Because ya know, it’s so easy maneuvering 70 lbs of steel and kid around the ass end of your bumper.

And those icy banks? Don’t even get me started. I mean, how hard would it be to, I don’t know let’s say, NOT dump that load of snow at the end of the walk way!!?? Why not put it on the grass side of the sidewalk or anywhere else!? I’m not a professional snow plow operator, but isn’t the idea to CLEAR areas, not to obstruct them? Call me crazy, but the service you are providing is called SNOW REMOVAL.

Oh and before any nay sayers start harping about why we don’t take the bus? Let me tell you something, we do. We do on stormy days and days that are not fit for walking. But on beautiful, crisp winter mornings, we like to walk. Because it’s everyone’s right. End of story.

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Accessibility is difficult to come by. Period.

You would think it to be only common sense to have the day to day luxuries like walking to school or being able use a public washroom, available to all abilities, but in reality it’s not!

Have you ever tried taking your five year old to a public washroom to change their bottom? Most of you probably have never had to do this. I have. This is our reality and do you know what we are faced with? We get to carefully attempt to change our child on a tiny Baby Change Station, located on the wall of an almost too small accessible washroom; not capable of housing a wheelchair plus Momma plus child. Ah and did I mention, my daughter IS NOT a baby! In a  few occasions the change station has not been within a washroom at all, but outside the stall, near sink areas. I don’t know about you, but I’m not fond of showing my hoo-ha to the public; neither should my daughter!

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Does this look comfortable to you?

Our only other option is to change our daughter on the floor of our van. Where is the dignity in either of these choices?

Accessibility shouldn’t have to be a luxury given to few. It is a right for all! So why is it that society has not fully invested in equality for everyone? Why isn’t it something we all should be striving to achieve? Is it because it doesn’t directly affect you or someone close to you? Maybe you weren’t aware there is a great need?

This is what I want to achieve today and the days coming. I want you all to look around at the environment you live, work, shop, frequently visit, restaurants you eat at; and think of children like my daughter, in a wheelchair, still in diapers;  young adults with severe needs, individuals with walkers, canes, stability issues, elderly relatives. If they walked down your street, worked in your office, shopped at the same bookstore or clothing store, ate at your favorite restaurant; could they do so safely? Comfortably? Be respected and have their dignity preserved? If you said no to at least one of these, change is needed! Change must happen. Because it’s 2016 folks!

3 thoughts on “2016: A Great Year For Change

  1. Anonymous

    Light bulb idea !!! Buy some of those recipe cards .. jot down that ( nicely put ) how much it would help a parent that has a child that uses a wheelchair … NOT to park out on the side walk ( leave the card on the windshield …since you never see them in daylight ) , call the city and tell them there snow removal sucks and please move that snow .If either fails to comply … call the police on people parked on the sidewalks and as far as snow removal …write a letter to the paper .
    Yours Truly
    A PISSED mother / grandmother !!!

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  2. People are too self centered and don’t think of anone bUT themselves…as for the changing facilities, you should write the makers of the changing station and explain the issues…also writing to head office of each place you shop that has locality and privacy issues with the stations, wours never hurt…not fair

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